“Women you play mind games. Stop forgiving men for stuff and after you forgive them, then forgetting that you forgave them and talk about the shit you already forgave them for…and get mad about it. Stop doing that. If you forgave him, forgive him. There’s nothing worse than being a man that’s messed up in the past and you’re trying to correct yourself, but your woman keep bringing the past up. So, now every time you telling the truth it sound like you lying and when you lying it sound like you telling the truth.”—Kevin Hart (via heyitsmejp)
“Curvy women are real women. Skinny women are real women. Women who have had boob jobs or lip enhancements or liposuction are still real women. Size 0 may make no sense mathematically, but a woman who wears that size is as real as the one who wears a size 16. What makes us “real” people is not the shape of our flesh but our basic humanity. And we lose our humanity when we judge.”—Hugo Schwyzer (via forever-and-alwayss)
Get to know her as an individual, don’t just base personality on how a girl looks, deep inside is a girl who’s been through so much, she has trusted only to be hurt over and over again, she has a story that you don’t know so take the time to listen to her, understand her point of view instead of making assumptions, she has a mind full of thoughts which explain how or why she feel the way she does so take a step into her mind and pay attention to what she says or how she feels, this shows her that you genuinely care about her, it lets her know that you can look past her imperfections, mistakes, or flaws and still like her for who she is as a person. Remember, love isn’t based on looks, it’s based on how someone can make you feel, that feeling that only they bring out in you, the butterflies and the genuine smiles.
Sometimes I feel like I don’t belong. I hate having to just sit there quietly listening to my friends and their conversation. I don’t know what goes on anymore and I obviously don’t get any of the insiders. I know no one tries to leave me out intentionally but I guess I’m just hurt because the friendship drifted away so much. But honestly, it’s no one’s fault except mine.